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Matemkar last won the day on June 8 2014

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  1. Islamic Movies

    Salam. Here's some Islamic Movies with English subtitles: http://www.islamicmovies.net
  2. A New Nation Arises?

    Discussion is not welcome here.. Certain topics like this and tawassul etc. are prohibited unless it is by mods or non-muslims.. Muslims with different views are not welcome here.. I got a warning and my posts were deleted.. And I asked the admins to delete my account.. For, I can't stand hypocricy.. And I don't want to get any more e-mails from this site.. Thank you for your understanding.. And an early eid mubarak to you all.. ma salam.. bye
  3. Bismihi Subhanah.. Salam.. First thing in the morning, I got an e-mail informing me about a warning issued here. And the reason I was given is "discussing jihad or tawassul" on a thread.. So, I should not comment when a so-called jihadi group destroying masjids, tombs, churches, tabacco etc. is thought to be Islamic? Or I should not comment when few catholic brethren here discuss the meaning of intermediation and I mention it is the same as tawassul in sunni and shia Islam and refer to a commonality? Well, I thought this is a forum for discussion and sharing knowledge.. What's the "warning" for? And why delete my post? If you think I am wrong, so please correct me.. If you won't bother discussing and won't get my post back and if you will keep deleting the posts of your brother in faith, -whereas you discuss with non-muslims and not delete their posts- then it is quite strange to me, better delete my account and keep the "forum" "clean" from discussions then.. Thanks. Ma salam
  4. "Happy the husband who sees the wife’s firm religion and follows her, and himself becomes pious in order not to lose his companion of eternal life. Happy the wife who sees her husband’s firmness in religion and becomes pious so as not to lose her eternal friend. Alas for the man who becomes dissolute, which will lose him for ever that righteous woman. Alas for the woman who does not follow her pious husband and loses her eternal blessed friend. And a thousand woes on the unhappy husband and wife who imitate each other in sin and vice, helping one another to enter Hell-fire!" You can download the amazing booklet here: http://www.mediafire.com/view/kksabsmb8em0enk/On+Islamic+Dress+for+Women.pdf
  5. A New Nation Arises?

    So, destroying shia Islamic Masjids and tombs, churches and burning tabaccos Islamic? Nah, sadly, I don't believe Islam comes in power with such destruction.. Islam comes with peace and unity.. And these guys lack it.. The so-called Islamic state group not only fights with Syrian govt. but also their opponents among other rebels.. Islam is about peace.. But, these guys are just a bunch of jobless youth.. trained with takfiri ideology to kill muslims and non-muslims that differ with them in ideology and politics.. And they are supported by western imperialist powers.. which tells me that these are NATO and American "Mujahids".. not mujahideen of God.. They are just used against other Arabs and Kurds.. probably when the west is done with them, they will finish them off too.. We did not see them fighting against American invasion in Iraq and we see them making Syria ready for another invasion.. We did not see them trying to remove the tumor of israel, yet we see them fighting with the only Arab state, Syria that has always supported Palestinian resistance groups.. So, things are complicated.. But, who cares, I am just an old guy with conspiracy theories..
  6. Intro

    wa salam. welcome to the forum brother :)
  7. In the name of Allah. Salam. Sorry, I can't copy-paste the article. But you can download it here: Outcomes of the Spiritual Journey - Prof. M. A. Shomali.pdf ma salam
  8. Hello :)

    salam alaikum. welcome to the forum brother. hope you like it here.
  9. Esselamu Aleykum

    Alaykum Salam. Welcome to the forum. bro dot, I can say that she is Turkish :)
  10. Salam. hope you like it: http://www.hamkhani.ir/?q=node/119
  11. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isDrBQCM5BQ
  12. When Do You Think Wwiii Will Start?

    that's sad.. I am ashamed to be Turkish.. :(
  13. Decent Job http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-CWK9seIWdY
  14. Islam

    salam. mashaallah.. ma salam
  15. Sunni Shia Marriage Problem

    wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullah sister No matter what denomination, if the husband is muslim (sunni, shia, sufi, etc) a muslim woman can marry him. And, there are slight differences in belief and practice, which you may think like differences between 4 madhahib.. And, about those differences being understanding and sacrificing will surely make it work.. like, about fasting times in Ramadan, he can be understanding and refrain from eating when you stop eating in suhoor, as stopping 20-30 minutes "earlier" won't ruin his fasting as per shia Islam (in fact it is praised).. And about iftaar, you can be sacrificing and understanding and start eating 15 minutes "later", as "delaying" the iftaar won't ruin your fasting as per sunni Islam (in fact it is praised).. That way you can start (and finish) eating together.. :hug: Etc.. And believe me, it works.. So, what I am saying is, you can find a common ground even about those differences.. Really, it is fine.. One thing the lovers are worried in ITRA-religion marriages is that, the condition of the children.. :happy: And, you can talk about it beforehand.. A decision like, focusing on the shared beliefs, like God, Prophets, Hereafter etc. while teaching the kids, and not imposing the kids any sect but letting them learn via observing would be the best decision.. And that they can decide themselves when they grow up.. And, really it is the best.. In such marriages, the children have a healthier thinking, as they are not filled with misinformation/disinformation about sects.. They can observe it themselves.. InshaAllah such marriages help Islamic unity.. And the kids born from them are most healthier (in thinking) than others.. So, my suggestion is, he does not postpone asking your hand, as "dating" is not seen as good as per both denominations of Islam.. And that your parents search about him ignoring denomination differences, as you both believe it does not matter (which is good, you can form a house of wahdah, unity..) Note that, as your huby says, you need only your parents' blessings (and I can understand why he is worried, because, if -God forbid- you break up or he dies, you may not have a home to return..) And, another point is, as per sunni and shia Islam, blessings of a virgin girl's parents is a must.. (As, Islam allows marriage without blessings of the parents of the husband or the wife who married before.. As, they are believed to be experienced.. But, as virgin girls are usually "blinded" by love, they need the blessings of their parents, as they can search about the husband to be..) However, they must not be blinded by sect differences.. They must search about his morality, loyalty etc.. I hope neither of your parents act biased about sects and that they approve your marriage.. Congratulations.. ma salam